Doing good, thanks!
You might wonder about the title of this newsletter. Here in the United States, we have the tendency when asked “How are you?” to more times than not respond, “Doing good, thanks!”, even if that is certainly not the case. We default to positivity and cheerfulness to save others from getting down about how we’re really feeling. I want to flip that phrase on its head and first and foremost, encourage everyone this holiday season to feel how you are feeling (holidays can be tough!) and let others know if you’re doing just okay or not that great. So much of what I talk about is acceptance, inclusion, and empathy in life and in the workplace. We need to be there for our colleagues when their response to that question is maybe not what we’re hoping for or expecting. We are living in particularly trying times—with the ongoing global pandemic, heightened violence, discrimination, and suffering. So many are struggling and facing challenging times, and it’s important that we hold space for our colleagues and be with them where they’re at without inflicting judgement.
While the title of this newsletter is clearly a play on words, I wanted it to demonstrate that 1) we are all human and we are doing our best, 2) business can and should be kind and empathetic, and 3) doing good is vital and something to be involved in and excited about.
So, welcome! I’m glad you’re here. :) I feel like there’s no better time than the week of Thanksgiving to launch my newsletter focused on all things doing good and giving back. I’ll generally be focusing on the topics of social impact, philanthropy, empathy, kindness, doing business better, and leadership. This newsletter is for you, so if there is anything that you’re interested in me writing about, just let me know!
What I want to leave everyone with is a list of simple ways you can give back during this Thanksgiving week:
Reach out to those who might be celebrating alone—a simple call or text can make such a difference. An invite to join you--even better!
Be sure to give extra thanks to those working over the holiday so you and your loved ones can celebrate together—delivery people, servers at restaurants, staff in your apartment building, grocery store employees, transportation personnel—the list goes on.
Understand that the holidays might be tough or triggering for some people—show extra empathy and compassion towards those who are having a difficult time.
Slow down. We are often so rushed (in our movement and communication) when trying to catch a flight or get last minute items for Thanksgiving. By slowing down, we are taking the time to be considerate of our surroundings and be present.
Random acts of kindness. Help someone carry groceries to their car. Hold the door for the person behind you. Check in with your neighbors to see if they need anything. Buy a coffee for the person behind you in line. Serve a Thanksgiving meal to those in need. Support your favorite organizations on Giving Tuesday.
I have a lot of exciting topics ahead and I hope you’ll read on in the months to come! Wishing everyone a relaxing, peaceful, and safe Thanksgiving!
Be well and do good,
Erin